Agreed, and my one call to action post to get other Admins to give a crap fell on it's face over on beehaw. It seems that many admins really think that every instance should use manual registration, or other tools. All in all, the message I got was "The devs don't have to listen to anyone".
I'm now of the opinion that most lemmy admins aren't people I want to associate with, they seem to be all about "open source" until it collides with concepts like "collective responsibility" and you'll get a response in the individualist line of reasoning of "Oh, just fix it yourself".
Kbin is sure lookin' pretty good these days now.