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[-] JoMiran@lemmy.ml 86 points 1 month ago

So...devastatingly handsome?

[-] essell@lemmy.world 40 points 1 month ago

Would you look at the lobes on that 🥰

[-] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 18 points 1 month ago

You can clearly see he has the lobes for business 💕

[-] DmMacniel@feddit.org 6 points 1 month ago

but not the ...... biggest lobes as his cousin not him owns a moon.

[-] SeductiveTortoise@piefed.social 4 points 1 month ago

You think he should have them surgically shrunk to go as a fe-male? Behave!

[-] BillyClark@piefed.social 11 points 1 month ago

And just look at that dashing smile. And such good hygiene. He clearly uses his tooth sharpener regularly.

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[-] rovingnothing29@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Now we know. Knowledge equals profit after-all.

[-] ch00f@lemmy.world 37 points 1 month ago

/r/incels had a CSS feature that would insert little ferengi heads every time someone used the word “female.”

[-] Track_Shovel@slrpnk.net 15 points 1 month ago

That's amazing

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[-] surewhynotlem@lemmy.world 25 points 1 month ago

Whenever someone says females but doesn't specify the species, I assume they mean goats.

[-] TachyonTele@piefed.social 7 points 1 month ago

"yeah man, same. I got two females at home and let me tell ya"

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 4 points 1 month ago

Chop chop dig dig chop chop dig dig

[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I’m going to adopt that as a personal reading rule, right up there with “if the headline ends with a question mark, the answer is no.”

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[-] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 21 points 1 month ago

this reminds me of a mental pebble in my shoe, sometimes it feels like there is an age category problem, "woman" still feels too old/mature no matter how old I get and "girls" sounds too young at this point, "chicks" is my go to because feels vague enough but maybe I just need work on my vocabulary

[-] BillyClark@piefed.social 29 points 1 month ago

I've been recently trying to phase my usage of "girls" out when referring to women, because it's unintentionally belittling. I've settled on just saying "woman" when referring to an adult woman in general.

Of course, if you're referring to a woman in person, you need to refer to her as "milady" and tip your hat. That's just basic etiquette.

[-] HeyThisIsntTheYMCA@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

Lady? Gal? Feminoid? I think context and tone matter a lot too.

I try to stick to pal and comrade these days but it's hard to beat decades of habit.

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[-] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 9 points 1 month ago

Girl is a child. Woman is an adult. Young woman if it's vaguely in between.

Female if you're doing medicine or science.

The girl lost her doll. The woman paid her taxes. The young women got dropped off at the movies. The female puffin lays one egg per season and shares the burden of caring for the puffling equally with their mate.

[-] Machinist@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Are they acually called pufflings? (pretty great if they are)

[-] ricecake@sh.itjust.works 3 points 1 month ago

They are! And it's one of the nice things to know in times like this.

There's a town in eastern Canada where sometimes pufflings get lost on their inaugural flight. The entire town goes out during the season to round them up, take them to a rehab facility to make sure they aren't hurt.

In the morning, the families take the healthy pufflings to a cliff and hurl them into the sea.

This sounds awful until you recall that puffins are aquatic birds who live on cliffs, so it's really just the first step towards breakfast for them.

[-] Dadifer@lemmy.world 7 points 1 month ago
[-] cadekat@pawb.social 7 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

"Ladies" can come across as sleazy, imo. And sometimes you're in a situation where the class/status suggested by "lady" ends up sounding sarcastic.

"Gals" implies a level of friendship, and "dames" is too old timey.

It's a tight rope walk of sounding too familiar/formal, implying old/young, or being insulting/demeaning... I conclude that we need a new word.

[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

I think we often forget about “young man” and “young woman.”

When someone is too young to safely call a woman, “young woman” is quite a compliment and gives her the respect of an adult anyway. If someone is just barely too old to be called a girl, they will probably find it neutral enough. And if someone is much too old to be called a girl they will appreciate it as flattery.

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[-] scarabic@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Speaking generously, I can see what you mean. But I think people only have this problem when they are used to calling people “girls” far too long. If you shake that bad habit, you won’t find yourself coming into conflict with these terms so often.

May I suggest the term “young women” as a highly respectful way to refer to younger folks. And if you are truly in doubt or referring to a mixed group, “ladies” is an alternative too.

I don’t recommend “chicks.” Some people are okay with it but many are not. A chick is a newly hatched bird, so this is quite infantilizing.

[-] Kowowow@lemmy.ca 4 points 1 month ago

Being in my thirties "young women" feels like I'm trying to play some sort of epstien judo

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[-] endless_nameless@lemmy.world 20 points 1 month ago* (last edited 1 month ago)

Honestly I feel like I'm gonna get myself in trouble every time I use "female" at all. There isn't really another adjective to use though. Saying "woman boxer" has a totally different meaning than "female boxer" for example. Oh well, I don't really value the opinion of people who would fault me for stepping on linguistic bear trap anyway.

[-] troglodytis@lemmy.world 32 points 1 month ago

Female is a great adjective and a poor noun.

[-] GreenKnight23@lemmy.world 6 points 1 month ago

such a female thing to say.

/s

[-] Poem_for_your_sprog@lemmy.world 5 points 1 month ago

Female birds generally have less colorful plumage than male birds.

[-] Tja@programming.dev 4 points 1 month ago

Female is fine. Females is very often used in a problematic way.

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[-] dontbelievethis@sh.itjust.works 15 points 1 month ago

Yes, call em bitches like a normal person.

[-] Tja@programming.dev 10 points 1 month ago

Give that bitch some respect. Bitches love respect.

[-] kepix@lemmy.world 11 points 1 month ago

incels ruining basic biology words

[-] Tollana1234567@lemmy.today 10 points 1 month ago

quark did say females that are pregnant are considered rentals.

[-] jojowakaki@lemmy.world 10 points 1 month ago

Ayy fuck you. I look like that but I don't go around calling people "females".

[-] peteypete420@sh.itjust.works 6 points 1 month ago

Thats weird, when people signal to me that they are an incel, I think they look less attractive. Not more attractive. Quark is fucking awesome, stop the ferengi hate.

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