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Girlfriend and I are going through a really rough patch. She got an IUD put in and it fucked her hormones so badly she almost instantly started hating me. Took about a day before she couldn't stand being around me and didn't know why. We took the IUD out about a week and a half ago and while things have gotten a bit better, she doesn't have any sexual attraction to me and physical touch (the main way I show affection) is very uncomfortable to her. I tried other routes of showing affection like acts of service but it just made her feel guilty. Idk what to do :( and it's been really hard. We've been dating almost 4 years and I don't want to lose her over this. I'll admit things weren't amazing before the IUD either but it made things very bad very fast and we haven't really recovered. We are looking into couples therapy and I hope it helps, I really do.
Good luck comrade! Sending love and good vibes. I lost a relationship recently too, so if you ever wanna talk, inbox is open