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egg_irl — Memes about being trans people in denial and other eggy topics

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[–] [email protected] 16 points 8 hours ago (3 children)

They're invalidating me saying they think I am a girl, they see me as a girl. Maybe it's nice that I pass as male on some level with them, but they still see me as a girl in some capacity, and that's a lose in my book, since they still treat me like one, call me one, and use she/her pronouns even when I cry and tell them to stop. Also telling me that I can't be a boy because "boys don't like to wear dresses and skirts".

[–] [email protected] 5 points 3 hours ago

Scotland calls bullshit

you do you, ignore idiots!

[–] [email protected] 12 points 7 hours ago (1 children)

Bro, fuck those bigots. I’m sorry, I know it’s easier to nominally have friends even if you hate them in high school, but those people are dumb, close minded, and making you feel bad.

I like to dance contra, which has a long tradition of men wearing skirts. You aren’t locked out of whimsy because you’re a man, neither are you immune to spinniness.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 4 hours ago

Agreed, though for some of them it's a challenge since they're not just friends but also colleagues and I can't as easily cut them out of my life. I'm stuck dealing with them, for a while anyway. Thank you for the nice words of affirmation.

[–] [email protected] 5 points 7 hours ago

Damn, I'm sorry that happens to you.