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[โ€“] [email protected] 9 points 3 months ago* (last edited 3 months ago) (2 children)

I wish I could, but given the condition I'm in - soon-to-be 24, unemployed, mentally poor, no heirloom, no inheritance, no labor laws, high levels of pollution - these aren't ideal conditions for a child.

I've also never courted a woman before - I can probably not, because it is my intrinsic bias that I won't have anything to provide from my end, and that I don't want it to be one-sided, and also because personal circumstances - abusive family, you know.

I don't want another cog to this exploitative capitalist machine. I guess I'm just unlucky, but hopefully, this suffering ends with me. This makes me feel a little sad, but I don't want to be selfish.

And no, I'm not taking care of adopted kids. There's barely a few rupees in my account. Worst case possible, I want save it for the endgame.

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

its so sad to read your comment

i hope you will get all the helps you need, and i hope you will get a better life

pardon my english :)

[โ€“] [email protected] 1 points 3 months ago

I wish you find happines. You deserve it.