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How to stop hating work? (beehaw.org)

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For background on this topic without getting too specific, I'm an engineer and I typically work in an office. I'm younger and haven't been in the work force for long but working in office spaces is driving me insane.

Now I understand that work isn't supposed to be super fun, but I'd like to at least be able to tolerate it. So far I've spent a couple years in offices and it's been miserable. I enjoy what I do as far as engineering. I like the topics, I like the productive parts of what I do. But I cannot stand office spaces. They're uncomfortable and depressing environments for me.

I feel like spending time working from home would be ideal, but I'd like to hear people's thoughts and if anyone else has had this experience. Is it something you just get used to?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 1 year ago

From your post and your comments, it sounds like your work environment isn't comfortable. The other topic I was expecting was that you didn't find job satisfaction, but you didn't say that at all.

Comfort in the workplace is something many women struggle with and working from home was liberating. If the temperature is wrong, or your seating isn't comfortable or you don't feel like you can take appropriate length breaks at the office, these are classic problems that need reform in the office. Humans aren't built to sit and make small movements on a keyboard and mouse all day, it breaks you.

I encourage you to look into work reform and workers rights. You aren't alone on this. Don't buy into the "work isn't supposed to be fun" thing. Work should. Matter and you should want to work, if you don't, that is the fault of the employer, not you. I worked stupid jobs and was abused by the system for 8 years before I was able to find a tolerable place, I'm still recovering years later from frustration and burnout.

Bullshit jobs by David Graeber is a great read.