we really need a 'thanks i hate it' community round here.

they're worse than straws imo, straws at least have a use for disabled people, children, and others who need them for independence.

it's not for everyone and certainly shouldn't be seen as the default or indoctrinated into people from a young age like it is right now. that being said, i'm very happily monogamous and couldn't imagine it any other way.

i know absolutely that i personally couldn't do a poly relationship. i'd be confused, upset, and unable to adapt to that kind of situation. that being said, i wish my poly friends no ill will and hope to see a world in with they'd be able to get married if they so choose. same goes for people who have no desire to be in a romantic relationship.

there's a lot more reasonable, adult discussion here. i like it a lot.

what a disgusting thing to do to your partner!

Personally I don't regard showering with my partner as particularly sexually exciting but more as a way to enjoy intimacy and being close and vulnerable with one another.

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bless all the people who've seen those things and provide accurate descriptions so the rest of us don't have to bear that burden

any trans ladies want some compliment just hit me up.

you now have access to cursed, ancient knowledge and it drives you crazy

it's similar to what's happening with mastodon right now. there's something going on with meta (the zuck) getting involved with mastodon.social, the biggest mastodon instance. because of that reason, a lot of people including myself have switched instances or to a different service entirely. it's an overwhelming 'no' for corporations getting involved with federated social media.