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[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago

I haven't drunk alcohol in over a year, last time I got drunk was maybe almost a decade ago...

I'm sure that'll convince someone? Though it makes it sound like I used to be one too lol.

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago

"What do you mean? I don't even drink"

[–] [email protected] 8 points 11 months ago (5 children)

I really should reduce my consumption, I've always hang around people that tend to get wasted on a weekly basis. Getting tipsy is enjoyable, but more than that is just fucking stupid. I also find it hard to talk about stuff with them, or to do meaningful activities, they just want to drink a lot and act like dumbasses in night clubs. So boring. I should try and find new friends, but I feel like most people act like this, honestly. It's the same when I hang out with strangers. My hard limit is 3 drinks per night now.

[–] [email protected] 6 points 11 months ago

Most people don't do this. You need to find friends somewhere other than bars and clubs.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I should try and find new friends, but I feel like most people act like this, honestly.

I don't know anyone like this. All, my friends, and my friends friends, do normal things like go out to eat, do something outdoors, play games, just talk, sit around a fire pit, etc. On a rare occasion a few will get drunk or high, but it is not a regular thing for any of us, sounds like you just surround yourself with 1 dimensional people with little to offer.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I wouldn't call them "1-dimensional", and they do have things to offer, but they go out to lose themselves, and drink like crazy. When we do have discussions they're very interesting, and we sometimes do activities unrelated to drinking, but they're not willing to go there often. Again, I meet these people at events in bars, so it's very likely that they're into drinking. My friends back home have mellowed quite a bit and we do normal stuff now. It's just hard to meet new people outside school/workplace if you don't have hobbies and you don't want to go to bars or nightclubs.

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[–] [email protected] 7 points 11 months ago

"I've honestly never really thought about it." And then "I don't know, I don't really keep track of how much I drink."

[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (2 children)

I honestly don't really see the appeal of alcohol. Water on top. Where my hydro homies at?

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[–] [email protected] 5 points 11 months ago (1 children)

I never drank anythinng alcoholic in my life. Does that sound alcoholic?

[–] [email protected] 9 points 11 months ago (1 children)

Yeah, if you need help we're there for you

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

Oh shit. Thanks tho.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

I have a drink once a month (or sometimes not for a few months) and it makes me feel exhausted. We do a big party once a year and that's more than enough for me.

[–] [email protected] 3 points 11 months ago

"I don't even drink!"

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