Euphoria: New outfit items acquired: tights and colored socks.
Dysphoria
I have discovered that I have no butt, and that is sad.
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Euphoria: New outfit items acquired: tights and colored socks.
Dysphoria
I have discovered that I have no butt, and that is sad.
Having no butt is fortunately the most solvable body issue, besides like changing your hairstyle. A fat butt isn't born, it's built
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Also let the record state that small butts are sexy
i love my fatness! i love my queerness! my fat queer body is beautiful and sexy!!!!
My gender today is girlrotting fail witch.
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incoherent rambling inspired by one of DirtOwl's badposts
This bad post by dirt owl got me thinking, oh wait sorry I mean feeling since I am dumb infp tanki with iq of -5, about the way we view gender as a society. Anyways, dirt owl was not the first user to talk about mbti on hexbear. Using the search function of hexbear, this post from four years ago says that it makes no sense that everyone fits into 16 distinct categories. Another comment mentions the anti-worker nature of the personality test.
The comments in the badpost often followed a similar line, with users identifying as personality types that are technically not part of the system. And this is actually valid, since in mbti you are actually the type that you say you are. What these comments show is resistance to a form of categorizing people, but it is even more than resistance, they are not even taking it seriously. The comments are metaphorically sending a giant PPB to the idea of separating people into new categories. And it's pretty obvious how this relates to gender, since both are attempts at limiting us within a binary system. Especially the thinking or feeling part, unfortunately, is connected with people's expectations of gender roles. But just as the badposters are the resistance to this typology, we are the resistance to the idea of gender under the constraints of capitalism. I think that the gender accelerationist manifesto articulates well what I've been thinking of better than I can, even though I didn't read it until today (If you haven't read it yet, perhaps you should...) Some of it talks about how the modern gender binary is a result of colonialism; that sort of relates to this week's megathread topic about gender in different cultures.
So I know that this personality stuff isn't widely used as a class to oppress people, although that is sort of what it is used for when it is used. But the way it creates boxes, it is easy to dismiss. But the typology being wrong doesn't mean that people don't have personalities. It just means that there are more than 16 expressions of personalities, since last I checked, I think that there's at least 16 people alive right now. The more "scientific" way to measure personality is through measuring traits on a multidimensional continuum. There is no need for labels to express your personality. The same goes for gender, the only difference being that gender is oppressive when used as a class. Maybe gender is also something that is multidimensional, and while some people can easily be labeled as a man or woman in the same way that others can be labeled as an extravert or introvert, there is much more variation in reality.
You know how AI language models store words as vectors? In this fashion, an analogy is represented: king is to queen as man is to woman. Here my observation is that there is some way to mathematically represent the idea of royalty, as well as some idea of gender, although most likely in this situation a reactionary version of gender is represented. But here gender is probably stored across multiple dimensions, and the gender binary could be a projection of some underlying phenomenon.
I would like to end this comment discussing the part of the manifesto about gender identity under communism.
Many people fear that, through the abolition of gender, our own gender identities will be taken from us. That, in abolishing gender, we will force you to stop identifying with your gender, however much you might enjoy that identity.
That was me, before yesterday. Now I am fully in support of gender abolitionism.
The end of gender as a system of power is our goal, and the end to gender identities is an eventual result, if it will happen at all, not something of importance or which we should strive toward.
The only way I can describe gender now is like brainwashing. We do what we are told, and we must comply. And almost everyone complies because they're all cis. If institutions didn't enforce this rigid interpretation of gender, life would be so much better for all of us here.
Sorry if this makes no sense or if some of what I am posting is obvious. Feel free to correct anything I said if it is brainwormed.
I love my trans comrades
Another brain cracked wide open by the Gender Accelerationist Manifesto! Grats, although a multidimensional mathematical representation of gender means you probably got even more out of it than I did.
Your endsummary rules as well. This combined with the Beyond Pink and Blue bit where talks about gender markers on IDs and shit being a form of control and often violence really rewired my brain.
good post and up with gender accelerationist manifesto
i should do a second read soon, it truly revolutionised how i think about gender and other class systems
I'm no longer a kissless virgin, just a regular virgin π
surgery stuff (positive)
finally argued my case hard enough that the surgeon I'm going with says he feels comfortable moving forward with insurance authorization
lost respect for him over the last month, but I don't really need to respect him for him to do surgery. I'll take the W
now back to electrolysis once again. π
I've also learned all the hiragana and katana characters and can remember them without reference
need to learn more words and kanji now. it was really intimidating to finally start learning japanese, but it's really not so bad once I got used to it. I can slowly start reading words in media I like and that's so exciting, even if it takes me so long for now
Feel like I need to stop using this site because I need IRL friends since I'm very lonley, but all the queer groups in my area are full of radlibs and Zionists :( Like its unhealthy to have my main form of social interaction outside of my job be this website, but there is very few people who will click with my interests and queerness
The trans group chat is pretty cool. And there's a decent level of separation from how hexbear is. Join us sometime
I joined it briefly when it came out but the volume of messages was too much for me, as I was either feeling like I was missing out on something, or I would be flooded with notifications. Thanks for the recommendation though
Admittedly this is the second or third time I've heard such things (from different people). I'm technically a mod of tracha (though never do mod things, just chat a lot) but am not speaking on behalf of the rest here but- maybe we might start up a "tracha-lite" or branch out into having different channels for things like difficult/sad discussion topics. I can let you know when that happens if you want
If a trachat light happens I would be up for joining
its unhealthy to have my main form of social interaction outside of my job be this website,
Universally or personally speaking? 'Cause I ended up in your situation, for so many reasons.
maybe this is weird of me, but i kinda see bearsite as a means to an end these days; I see it as a place to find people with my interests and who i like talking to, and hopefully I can build something deeper with them. I also find tracha a little overwhelming so i don't chat too much, but I do like me some small groups or 1-on-1 things.
LIFTING UPDATE
So I am STILL not lifting yet, it's been like a month. I stopped taking tramadol and like I wanna get back, but Idk if it will make it better. What if without the pain receptors being numbed, it'll just hurt and be excruciating and I die? What if I rot instead???
I like that my chronic pain/fatigue is maybe stopping me from doing the thing that could make my chronic pain/fatigue less bad.
I am never going to be the beautiful muscledyke........ tfw not athletic........
In other news I have the most creeping feeling that Fallow isn't a one-run game and that stuff changes, more than just the sealed door, if you play it again. I'll have to go back and puzzle over it. Give it more kisses, my beloved.
How do you talk without your vocal chords deciding to randomly sound like they're sick for the next 24 hours sometimes
i love my wife ngl
i had "lady" like not only are you misgendering me, i feel both old and condescended to too. a triple! why wont people stop. sob.
Once again just woke up and drinking coffee
cw yankee electoralism
i got the most pathetic liberal comment on youtube after i said the blue team are just doing blue fascism and it's beyond pathetic how libs start waking up now again when the red team starts doing red fascism (it's the same fascism)
" you realize the βblue teamβ is not for that? You do realize that right??? And this song was during when βthe red teamβ was in power still. "
each question mark just fills me with more joy this was under a RATM song because it's topical to fight against the machine again for the next four years
the song was released while Clinton was in office too! like goddamn
Anti-recommendation for shoes sold by Aphixta on aliexpress. They're very poorly made all over but most importantly the heels are wobbly and seem likely to break easily.
gemder
I did a module on social anthro and women's history and it covered similar bits. Best part of uni and it was only a side module.