How to actually train yourself to reconnect with emotions (slrpnk.net)

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So I was recently told to try a loving-kindness exercise, and found it very difficult to follow the instructions.

So basically they have you first sit comfortably, Then you try to remember a person or situation you felt warm being loved (or loving) And then you want to focus on the feeling that this gives you. And finally think of a person you want to share this feeling with.

But I'm already stuck in the second part. I can't really remember something good that happened to me that would actually cause a feeling.

I just don't really notice any change.

Did anybody find a way to actually feel anything by thinking back on something? Or in any other way?

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[-] rhk@piefed.social 2 points 2 months ago

Ah, yeah, that can be a challenge. It's something that comes up for sure, but it's hard to give a general answer to. If there are memories that must people would consider likely traumatic but they feel kind of numbed out too that's often something a good therapist can coach you through - but it's pretty individual.

Another option to consider is looking through some of the DBT handouts on recognizing and naming emotions, which have very concrete descriptions that include physical sensations etc - sometimes this can help if part is what's happening is you're feeling very cut off from emotions.

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